It is officially mid-January, and Valentine’s Day is just around the corner. If you are single and feeling a bit lonely, this post was written specifically for you because we are diving deep into Manifesting Love This Valentine the Neville Goddard way.
Let’s be honest for a second: February has a funny way of making us audit our love lives.
You walk into the grocery store, and you are immediately assaulted by a wall of red foil-wrapped chocolates and oversized teddy bears. You open social media, and it’s a parade of “couple goals” and dinner reservations. If you are currently single, in a complicated “situation-ship,” or separated from the one you love, this time of year can feel like a spotlight shining directly on what feels missing.
(Side note: If the red foil hearts are making you roll your eyes, you might enjoy this I Hate Valentine: Color Your Way Through The Cheesiest Holiday coloring book. Sometimes you just need to color your way through the cringe!)
But here is the good news: Manifesting love this Valentine is not about luck. It’s about law.
It doesn’t matter if you haven’t spoken in months. It doesn’t matter if they said they “aren’t ready.” It doesn’t matter if you are currently blocked on Instagram.
If you follow the teachings of Neville Goddard, you know that your reality is not fixed. It is fluid, and it is entirely responsive to you. Whether you want to attract a brand new partner or you are focused on a Specific Person (SP) to be your Valentine, the process is the same.
If you are ready to start finding love within instead of waiting for it, you have clicked on the right article. Grab a cup of tea, take a deep breath, and let’s change your love life from the inside out.
The Foundation: You Are the Operant Power
Before we dive into the specific techniques, we have to address the elephant in the room. Most people approach dating and relationships from a state of “victimhood.”
We say things like:
- “Why won’t they commit to me?”
- “I hope I get lucky and meet someone before the 14th.”
- “Why do I always attract unavailable people?”
In the world of the Law of Assumption, luck doesn’t exist. There is only Cause (your imagination) and Effect (your 3D reality). If you are interested in a deeper dive into this spiritual side of romance, check out my guide on Love Through the Lens of Metaphysics.
Neville Goddard taught that “Creation is finished.” This means that the version of you who is happily spending this holiday with your person already exists right now in the quantum field. You don’t have to create it from scratch; you just have to tune into it, much like tuning a radio to a specific frequency.
When you are constantly checking your phone to see if they texted, you are tuning into the frequency of waiting. And the universe, being a faithful mirror, will give you more waiting. To succeed at manifesting love this Valentine, you must move from thinking OF the relationship to thinking FROM the relationship.
The Secret Sauce: Everyone Is You Pushed Out
This is the concept that trips people up the most, but it is also the most liberating. Neville coined the phrase “Everyone Is You Pushed Out” (EIYPO).
In simple terms, this means that people in your reality act according to the script you unknowingly wrote for them. They have no choice but to reflect your dominant beliefs about yourself and about them.
If you believe deep down that “men always leave me” or “women are too demanding,” you will meet people who prove you right every single time.
When it comes to manifesting love this Valentine with a specific person, here is how it works:
- If you view them as a celebrity: They will view you as a fan.
- If you view them as “hard to get”: They will be distant and cold.
- If you view yourself as the Prize: They will pursue you relentlessly.
To change your relationship, you have to stop trying to change them. You don’t need to manipulate them, send the perfect text, or play mind games. You simply need to change how you view yourself in relation to them. When you change your self-concept to “I am chosen, adored, and prioritized,” they will shift to reflect that new story.
Step 1: Taking Them Off the Pedestal
The biggest mistake I see people make is idolization.
You are treating this person like they are the source of your oxygen. You are checking their social media score, analyzing their horoscope, and worrying about what they are thinking. By doing this, you are making them the “God” of your reality.
But you are the God of your reality.
Manifesting love this Valentine requires you to take them off the pedestal. Remember, they are just a person. They have bad hair days. They have insecurities. They are not better than you.
The “Pedestal” Exercise: Close your eyes and imagine your specific person standing on a giant golden pedestal, looking down at you. Now, in your imagination, kick that pedestal over. Watch them land on the ground, eye-level with you. Better yet, imagine yourself on the pedestal and them looking up at you with adoration.
Feel the shift in power? That is where you need to live.
Step 2: Ignoring the 3D (The “Dead” Reality)
This is the hardest part, especially when the holiday is approaching. You look at your phone, and there is no message. Your senses tell you, “It isn’t working.”
Neville Goddard teaches that the 3D world (what you see with your eyes) is just the echo of your past thoughts. If you are alone right now, that is just a manifestation of your thoughts from last week or last month. It is “dead” energy. It is old news.
If you react to the silence by crying or panicking, you are re-planting the seeds of separation.
To be successful in manifesting love this Valentine, you have to be delusional in your confidence. When you look at your empty phone, you must chuckle and think, “Oh, they are probably just drafting the perfect message right now,” or “I know they are thinking about me, I can feel it.”
Do not accept the 3D as the final truth. Your imagination is the real truth.
Step 3: The Techniques (SATS and Mental Diet)
Now, let’s get practical. How do we actually impress the subconscious mind to bring this love into our physical world? We use Neville’s proven methods.
The “Mental Diet” Your mental diet consists of the thoughts you think all day long. You cannot do a 5-minute meditation on love and then spend the next 15 hours complaining to your friends that “dating is hard.” You must catch your negative thoughts and flip them instantly.
- Old Thought: “They are never going to ask me out.”
- New Thought: “Why are they suddenly so obsessed with me? It’s amazing how much they want to see me.”
SATS (State Akin To Sleep) The most famous technique is SATS. This is a visualization method done right before you drift off to sleep when your subconscious is most open to suggestion.
How to use SATS for specific love:
- Relax: Get into bed and relax your body. You want to be in that drowsy, floaty state right before unconsciousness.
- The Scene: Create a short scene (5–10 seconds long) that implies your desire is already fulfilled.
- Loop It: Do not visualize the middle (the text, the date). Visualize the end.
- Example: Imagine it is the night of February 14th. You are feeling a ring on your finger, or you are feeling the weight of their arm around you. You hear them whisper, “I have never been happier than I am with you.” (If you need inspiration for the perfect evening, check out my ideas for The Perfect Valentine’s Day Dinner).
- Sensory details: Focus on the touch. The smell of their cologne/perfume. The warmth of their skin. The feeling of relief.
- Repeat: Loop this scene over and over until you fall asleep.
If you fall asleep in the feeling of the wish fulfilled, you are impressing that reality into your world. You are planting the seed. Once the seed is planted, it must grow.
Is Manifesting Love This Valentine Really Possible?
Is there a time limit on manifestation? No. But can you speed it up? Yes, by removing resistance.
The only reason it hasn’t happened yet is that you are still looking for it. You are still asking, “Where is it?”
Think about ordering a package from Amazon. Once you click “Order,” you don’t pace around the living room wondering if the order went through. You don’t call Amazon crying. You know it’s coming. You go about your day.
Manifesting love this Valentine works the same way. You need to treat your desire like that Amazon order. It’s done.
The “Remember When” Technique: If you are feeling anxious about the upcoming date, play a game in your mind. Imagine it is February 15th. Imagine you are talking to your best friend and saying: “I had the most incredible Valentine’s Day. It was better than I imagined. I’m so glad I didn’t worry about it.”
Feel the relief of the event being over and successful. This tricks your brain out of the state of anxiety and into the state of fulfillment.
A Final Word on Self-Love
While we talk a lot about the “Specific Person,” the truth is that the most specific person in your world is you.
You cannot be treated like royalty if you feel like a pauper inside. Use this time before the holiday not just to visualize them, but to pour love into yourself.
Buy yourself the flowers. Wear the perfume or cologne that makes you feel expensive. Look in the mirror and say, “I am the catch of a lifetime.” If you need practical steps on this, read my post on How to Be Your Own Valentine: Self-Love Tips.
When you genuinely fall in love with yourself, the world (and your SP) has no choice but to follow suit. That is the law.
So, are you ready?
Take your focus off the calendar. Take your focus off the 3D circumstances. Go within, create the love you desire in your imagination, and watch how quickly the outer world shifts to match you.
Manifesting love this Valentine is not just about a date; it’s about realizing you are the creator of your life. Celebrate authentic love this year—the kind that starts with you.
Happy Manifesting! You’ve got this.
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