Here Comes Valentine’s Day Again…
Yup, It’s that time of year again. The malls are decked out in red and pink, heart-shaped chocolates line the shelves, and every TV commercial seems to scream, “You need someone to love!” For some, it’s a day of romance and celebration. But for others—especially if you’re single—it can feel like a giant reminder of what you don’t have. The pressure to find a date, the awkward questions from family, and the endless posts on social media can make Valentine’s Day feel less like a celebration and more like a chore.
And let’s be honest: it stings. Whether you’re happily single, healing from a breakup, or just tired of the dating scene, Valentine’s Day can bring up a mix of emotions—loneliness, frustration, or even a little bit of resentment. I get it. I’ve been there.
My Story: Remembering my Single Years
I was single for a long time—years, in fact. My first love at 19 left me deeply hurt, and though I tried to move on, none of the relationships that followed lasted or felt right. It wasn’t until I was 33, after a whirlwind six-month romance, that I finally found my man and got married. But before that? Valentine’s Day was… complicated.
Some years, I laughed it off, treating it as just another day. Other years, it felt like a punch to the gut. I remember scrolling through social media, seeing couples post their perfect dates, while I sat at home with a pint of ice cream and a rom-com that only made me feel worse. It was hard not to feel like I was missing out—like I wasn’t enough.
But over time, I realized something important: Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to be about romantic love. It can be about self-love, independence, and celebrating the person you are right now. That realization changed everything for me. It’s why this year, I created the “I Hate Valentine: Color Your Way Through The Cheesiest Holiday” coloring book—a fun, sassy, and empowering way to laugh your way through the cheesiest holiday of the year.
Why This “Anti-Valentine’s Day” Coloring Book?
Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to be about romantic love. In fact, it’s the perfect opportunity to celebrate self-love, independence, and the joy of being yourself. Here are a few ways to make the day special, even if you’re single:
- Treat Yourself: Whether it’s a spa day, your favorite dessert, or a cozy night in, do something that makes you feel good.
- Connect with Friends: Host a Galentine’s Day gathering or a virtual hangout with your closest friends.
- Practice Gratitude: Write down things you love about yourself or your life. It’s a powerful way to shift your focus to the positive.
- Get Creative: Dive into a hobby you love, like painting, writing, or—yes—coloring.
And speaking of coloring, that’s where the ‘I Hate Valentine’ coloring book comes in. This book isn’t just a collection of pages to color—it’s a celebration of self-love, humor, and the joy of being yourself. Whether you’re single, cynical, or just need a break from the holiday madness, this book is here to help you:
- Laugh: With sarcastic quotes like “Love stinks, but coloring doesn’t!” and whimsical illustrations of grumpy cupids, this book is guaranteed to make you smile.
- Relax: Coloring is a therapeutic activity that can help reduce stress and boost mindfulness. It’s the perfect way to unwind on Valentine’s Day—or any day.
- Empower Yourself: Celebrate your independence with messages like “I shine on my own” and “My heart is my own.”
How This Book Can Help You
If you’re feeling the Valentine’s Day blues—or even if you’ve never tried coloring before (trust me, it’s incredibly relaxing!)—this book is here to remind you that you’re not alone. It’s a way to:
- Reframe the Holiday: Instead of focusing on what you don’t have, celebrate what you do have—yourself.
- Find Joy in the Little Things: Sometimes, all it takes is a little creativity and humor to turn a tough day into a fun one.
- Connect with Others: Host a coloring party with your single friends, or share your finished pages on social media with the hashtag #IHateValentine.
A Gift to My Readers
To help you get started, I’m offering 5 free pages from the ‘I Hate Valentine’ coloring book. These pages are a little taste of the humor, sass, and self-love that fill the rest of the book. Whether you’re coloring solo or hosting an Anti-Valentine’s Day party with friends, I hope these pages bring a smile to your face and remind you that you’re amazing just as you are.
Call-to-Action
Share the Love: Tag us on social media with your colored pages using #IHateValentine and #SelfLoveColoring—we’d love to see your creations!
Download Free Pages: Click here to get your 5 free Anti-Valentine’s Day coloring pages.
Buy the Book: Click here for the 8.5×8.5” regular square size or click here for the 6×6” pocket size on Amazon.
Conclusion
Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to be about romantic love. It can be about self-love, independence, and the joy of being yourself. Whether you’re single, cynical, or just need a laugh, the ‘I Hate Valentine’ coloring book is here to remind you that the most important love story is the one you write for yourself.
So grab your favorite markers or colored pencils, pour yourself a glass of wine (or your beverage of choice), and color your way to a fun and fabulous Anti-Valentine’s Day. Because, at the end of the day, the best love is the love you have for yourself.
While this book is all about poking fun at Valentine’s Day and celebrating independence, let’s not forget that love—real, genuine love—is one of life’s most beautiful experiences. Whether it’s the love of family, friends, a partner, or even the love you have for yourself, it’s worth cherishing and nurturing.
Remember, it’s okay to laugh at life’s quirks, roll your eyes at clichés, and embrace your individuality, but never close your heart to the magic of love. Love has a funny way of finding us when we least expect it, and it’s worth holding on to when it does.
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Finding Mr. Right This Spring: Your Guide to Love, Growth, and Romance
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